tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1224870567406418012024-02-18T18:04:16.786-08:00Rafi & Adina Mendelsohn's blog - on our way to Eretz IsraelAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-60288555827348986092013-10-17T00:39:00.000-07:002013-10-17T00:39:54.417-07:00Choosing a Gan for our bubeles<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">One thing’s for sure…EVERYONE has an
opinion about the different ganim on offer in Israel. We needed places for our
kids as work and ulpan were about to begin and so we began our search. There
are some great Facebook forums for mothers in Israel and one specifically for
the area we live in and so we posted a request for Gan recommendations and
within exactly six minutes, the dedicated mothers of Modiin replied with
various different options as well as their own thoughts about why that
particular gan was so great, followed by counter posts saying why other gamin
were better. We decided that the only way to really know was to set up visits
and see for ourselves.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">There were so many options of types
of chilcare to choose from…metapelet (childminder), mishpacton (small playgroup
in someone’s home), maon (government sponsored groups), Gan (nursery). Once we
had decided that we wanted to send the baby to a mishpachton and our three year
old to a Gan, we narrowed down our options and chose suitable places. We
actually sent both kids to English speaking childcare places as we wanted them
to feel comfortable and able to communicate but there are loads of different
options of places to go and definitely plenty of Hebrew speaking places.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Our kids cried for the first month
every day when we left…you might be luckier than we were! It’s hard for both
the parents and the kids (probably more for the parents) but it has settled
down and now both kids are thriving in these Ganim. We were so happy that we
based our decisions on our gut feeling about each place rather than on people’s
opinions as at the end of the day, the parents know their children the best.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-41217384225405562072013-09-12T05:00:00.001-07:002013-09-12T05:01:50.150-07:00Ten things to expect in the supermarket<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB">About a week
into our Aliyah, we realised that we would have to succumb and visit the
supermarket to start stocking our home properly rather than buying bits here
and there and delaying the inevitable. Here are some things that we learnt very
quickly about the supermarkets in Israel.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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shekel for the trolley. This was not a surprise for us to have to pay for the
trolley as we had to do that in England but most Israelis seem to have a token
that is the same shape and size as a 5 shekel coin and for the life of us, we
have no idea where to get one from. In the meantime, we are doing it the old
school way and stashing a 5 shekel coin in our wallets, specifically for the
supermarket.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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buy meat in the supermarket. This is nothing for most people but to us it was
huge being the big meat eaters that we are! There are even places online where
you can print off the different names and cuts of meat and chicken and so you
will never be at a loss when browsing the huge selection of meat at the
supermarket.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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membership cards (Cartis Moadon) are great and give you lots of extra deals and
savings just for members. We have one for every supermarket near where we live!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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supermarket workers have sections where they work so they are experts on their
section of the supermarket but have no clue what goes on beyond their aisle! I
once asked the fruit guy where the pasta was and he looked at me as if I was
mental (and it wasn’t my basic Hebrew that stumped him either!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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can, avoid Thursday evening/Friday shopping. The beauty of living in the Jewish
homeland is that you are surrounded by Jewish life but it also means that
everyone wants to shop for Shabbat! Interestingly, when I did go on a Friday
morning once (at 7.30am), it was full of men clutching on to shopping lists
from their wives!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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to seasonal fruits and vegetables! Our daughter loves grapes but we could only
buy them when they are firmly in season and therefore reasonably priced and
tasty. Expect citrus fruits in winter, melons in spring, peaches/plums/apricots
in summer. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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fact…Israelis are not big cereal fans in comparison to Anglos. There is a huge
selection of cereals but they are pretty expensive so our cereal collection as
halved since coming here. Compare the cereals to the price of a kilo of
cucumbers and you understand why Israelis have lots of TCP salad for breakfast,
lunch and dinner.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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perfectly acceptable to do most of your shopping, leave your shopping trolley
in the line to pay and then continue doing the rest of your shopping. There
seems to be an unspoken agreement that you do not move an abandoned trolley.
Just embrace it!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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pay for your supermarket shop in instalments or in one payment. This was a
strange idea to us but very much part of the Israeli culture for those who need
it. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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as you leave the supermarket, you need to hand your receipt to a sixty
something year old security guard who looks at your receipt, glances over at
your bagged shopping and then stamps your receipt. Not really sure what this
does and how this prevents theft when he can’t see inside the already packed
bags but again, go with the flow!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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luck!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-41418230805447987352013-09-03T00:40:00.000-07:002013-09-03T00:40:46.283-07:00Making a house a home<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB">After a week of
sleeping on mattresses all in one room to keep warm, possibly the greatest
moment of our lives (bar our wedding day and having children) was about to
happen. At about 10am, we stood on our balcony and watched as a huge truck with
our shipment from London trundled up the road. We greeted five burly men who
started to unload the container and bring stuff up to the flat. The big boss
man of the workers (who didn’t lift a single box) walks into the flat and asks
us straight up “how much did you pay for this place?” Shocked (as we are
English and not used to such outright questions) we told him and then he
proceeded to tell us that we had paid too much and that he had a seven bedroom
house by the sea in Ashkelon for half the rental price. Ignoring him, we started to direct the movers
to the different rooms to put the boxes into the correct rooms.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">When checking to
see if everything was there, we couldn’t help feeling that something big was
missing. The couches were here, the table and chairs were here, our bed was
here, Eitan’s cot was here and then it hit us…Ella’s bed was missing. We had
ordered a new bed for her from London which was to be delivered straight to the
shippers warehouse. One phone call to the shippers and all was answered…the bed
was delivered but our surname (Mendelsohn) was spelt Mandelson on the delivery
and weirdly enough, there was a family Mandelson moving to Israel at exactly
the same time as us, using the same shippers but rather than moving to Modiin,
they were moving to Shoham (not far from Modiin). So our bed was put on their
shipment instead and would be delivered to us the following week. Ella would
have to sleep on mattresses for another week which she thought was so much fun
(thank goodness).<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB">It was just the
most amazing feeling to see all of our stuff, all of our home comforts sitting
in our flat in Israel. Our couches, our table and chairs, our beds (minus
Ella’s), our TV, the kids toys. Nothing beat that feeling that we could now
unpack all our things and create our home. Great day. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-80646829734762650492013-08-08T02:10:00.002-07:002013-08-08T02:11:14.301-07:00Pizza, Pizza and more Pizza<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">As we were staying at family in
Netanya, we were commuting to Modiin every day for the first week of our Aliya.
This meant a lot of time in the car, eating a lot of crisps and listening to
the same CD which we had brought with us, interspersed with the radio when the
kids had fallen asleep. We had begun the crusade to blitz through our list so
that we would be the most super organised olim that ever existed (we can be a
bit competitive like that!)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Two days after we made Aliya was
Ella’s third birthday. Now, she had already had about three parties when we
were back in London to celebrate this occasion but on her actual birthday, we
really spoiled her and took her… to the bank to set up an account. Thank
goodness our good friend David and brother/brother in law Daniel were around to
keep her entertained and took her out for ice cream, bought her a present,
bought her sweets – the instructions were “anything to keep her happy”. After
killing quite a few trees through the amount of paperwork that it takes to set
up an account here, we came across the dilemma of which type of card do we
get…credit or debit. In England, people use both but for people who like to
keep track of their spending tend to go with a debit card. So, when we
requested the debit card, the woman looks at us like we are a bit mad. She then
explained to us that in Israel, people like credit cards so that they can buy
whatever they want during the month and then only pay at the end. Finally, we
understand why so many people in Israel are in debt. It is not a conscious
decision but something that is part of society. We decided to be half English
and half Israeli…we got both! After an hour and a half, we realised we were
starving and so began the pizza fest that would continue for the next few days.
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We also needed to sign up for health
insurance which meant bye bye NHS for us. As born and bred Britons, we were
used to free healthcare thanks to the NHS. So for us, a big difference was the
fact that you have to pay for healthcare in Israel. For Americans, it is the
same but for us, it was a different mentality to get used to. One definite plus
is that the Olim benefits cover a certain amount of the medical fees for the
first year – great stuff. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Next stop was shopping for a fridge.
We had never shopped for a fridge before because the one we had in London was
second hand and came with our flat. So this was a new experience for us. We
looked in three different shops, bartering prices between them all (only in
Israel) and finally came to an agreement and made our first purchase which
would be delivered to the flat the following week. Very proud of ourselves (and
also feeling that the guy might have charged us more because he could hear we
were not Israeli), we went to get food for the kids (pizza) before heading back
to Netanya for the night where we could actually celebrate Ella’s birthday with
cake and presents. Not a bad start. We had done most of the paperwork that we
needed to do and met up with Misrad HaKlita (absorbtion) to discuss next
stages. Now, we had to sit tight and wait for our shipment. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-50184001494879232412013-07-22T04:53:00.001-07:002013-07-25T03:28:10.557-07:00DAY ONE<div dir="rtl" style="text-align: right;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We were so busy since making Aliyah in March, now I'm finally available to continue my blog. </span><br />
<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">After all the excitement of our
moving day and finally arriving in Israel as Olim Chadashim, we were completely
exhausted. We had planned to stay at family for a few days so that we could get
ourselves organised and actually see our flat rather than just studying the
same ten photos of the flat that our friends had sent us. We took it easy the
morning after. We woke up late (ish – thanks kids) and whilst we tried to relax
and absorb the fact that this wasn’t a holiday but actually the place where we
lived, we realised that we were itching to start working through the long list
of things from the Jewish Agency telling us what needed to be organised and in
what order. For example, we needed to sort out a bank account first before we
could set up our health insurance so that we could actually pay for the health
insurance. Sounds logical. With two kids to keep entertained during the immense
amount of paperwork that lay before us, we began planning the next 48 hours. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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necessary to set ourselves up as Israeli Citizens, our first stop was our new
flat. We were desperate to see our new home and as we found our way around the maze
like streets of Modiin (all the streets look the same), we pulled up at the
flat. Walking up the stairs, we are greeted by this voodoo style doll sitting
on a chest of drawers outside our front door, courtesy of our neighbours. Talk
about freaky. We looked at each other,
already thinking that we might have crazy neighbours and opened the front door.
Walking in, we suddenly realised what the word ‘unfurnished’ meant in Israel.
Literally nothing. Not even a toilet roll holder in the bathroom. Trying to
think optimistically about how great it was going to look when all our stuff
arrived, we sat down (on the floor) and that is when reality really hit. We had
a lot of work to do!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We opened up the door to our mirpeset
(terrace) and Ella raced outside and spent the next half an hour running up and
down and playing. It was about 20 degrees outside – boiling hot for us
Londoners but a chilly day for Israelis and most importantly, not raining! At
that moment, we knew that however much work there actually was to do, this was
the right decision. The fact that Ella could just go outside and play (despite not
even having any toys yet to play with as they were still sailing on the
Mediterranean) was testament to the fact that our quality of life had soared
and it was only Day 1. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-32434362916673154292013-02-11T02:33:00.000-08:002013-03-18T23:19:03.263-07:00THE BIG DAY<div dir="rtl" style="text-align: right;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Eight weeks after we announced our Aliya, the day has finally arrived. We are off. The glorious sunny weather has encouraged a few remarks of ‘we get sun here as well so why do you need to go to Israel for the better weather?’ even though it is absolutely freezing. All packed up and sitting waiting for the taxi – atmosphere a bit tense. The taxi arrives early much to our parents dismay (even though they are following the taxi to come to the airport with us).<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">What is the most anticipated part of the airport experience? When the Elal person asks you ‘what is your reason for travel?’ Our dream response of ‘we are making Aliya!!!!’ is straightway shut down when the guy didn’t even ask us but took one look at our 11 bags and said ‘Ah, you are making Aliya – ok come this way.’ We just nod feebly and follow him to answer the security questions.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A nice, smooth check in where for once our suitcases are not overweight (we do have 190kg weight allowance between the four of us plus a full shipment), we say our teary goodbye to our sobbing parents with a very puzzled and confused onlooking Ella wondering why everyone was crying when only she and Eitan are usually the ones to cry. Feeling very loved, we walk away through to security.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The check in lounge is busy but we manage to entertain Eitan with food and Ella with a new pair of oversized earphones so that she can watch her programmes without subjecting the rest of us to listen to Peppa Pig. So far, so smooth.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The flight is slightly delayed, mostly full and arrives into Ben Gurion at 9.15pm. As prepped by the Jewish Agency, the man is waiting for us by the lifts just after you get off the plane. His name is Avraham and he takes us to a secret part of Ben Gurion airport. It is not really so secret it is just we never knew it existed before even though it is right in front of your eyes when you go to passport control. Up in a lift with a special key (feeling very special that we are allowed in this lift), we arrive in the offices to receive our Teudat Oleh and our Teudat Zehut. What is our first welcome to Israeli culture – a huge bag of sweets given to Ella at 9.45pm. Before we know it, she has cracked open a lollypop, polished it off in about a minute. Five minutes later, the sugar high is kicking in and we have a thousand word a minute talking Ella who is running up and down the offices. Some think this is sweet. Others tell her to shush so that they can concentrate and get us out of the offices so that they can go home. An hour after we stepped into the lift to go up, we are walking through passport control armed with our Israeli documents – we are Israeli citizens.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Collecting all 11 pieces of luggage, two car seats, pushing two buggies, we walk through the doors of the arrival lounge at 11pm to the roars of our welcome party – grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, friends - waiting with balloons, banners and teddy bears. Overwhelming and amazing. This is the moment we have been waiting for. Cheesy photos of us holding our Teudat Zehut taken, we are ushered into our taxi – one for our luggage and one for us and off we go to start our new life in Israel.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-44067490533863399472013-01-25T00:27:00.000-08:002013-02-06T00:28:13.613-08:00SUPPORTING OUR MOVE AND THE FINAL GOODBYES<div dir="rtl" style="text-align: right;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Fact - our Aliyah would never be happening without the support and guidance of friends, family and various organisations. Throughout our whole planning process to date, we have had offers of help in all shapes and sizes. From looking after the kids when packing up to actually helping with the packing – we are REALLY going to miss our support network!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">In terms of quashing our worries of ‘what do we do when we actually arrive in Israel?’, the Jewish Agency provided us with all of that information including step by step instructions of where EXACTLY you go from when you step off the plane until you are at your first night’s accommodation. They even factor in contingency plans – for example, if someone is not waiting for you, walk a bit further until you see a phone just before passport control and pick up the handset and wait for someone to pick up. All a bit ‘secret agent-esque’ but this definitely eased our minds about the logistical process.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">In the months before our Aliya plans were even a reality, a group of our friends who are equally keen to make the move met regularly in order to discuss different aspects of Aliya such as schools, property, communities etc. This was organised by Habayta and we took it in turns to host these meetings. This was a great way to focus on different aspects of Aliya and gathering useful information about all these incredibly important factors – plus there was always an amazing free dinner (shwarma or pizza – we took it in turns!) <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">After all the build-up, the planning, the clearing out, the moving, our last couple of weeks in London have finally arrived. Even if we wanted to just slip off quietly, there is no way our family and friends would have let us. The goodbyes are probably the thing that worries us the most as this is the wake-up call that this is happening. It is no longer just an idea in our minds but it is in fact our next step in life. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A combination of a small Kiddush, a British/Israeli themed party and a final drink in the pub made sure we were off on our journey in the appropriate way. Our final shabbatot were spent with our respective families where there were a lot of tears and a few not so hushed whispers of ‘Adina and Rafi can go but they should leave the children’. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A few l’chaims to wish us well on our travels, a few tears from everyone and a lot of everyone getting their diaries out to see when we would be seeing each other next and therefore officially starting the countdown, we are now packed up and ready to go. Bring it on!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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a great excuse to go shopping. There is a definite mentality that you have to
buy everything in England because you aren’t sure whether they will have it in
Israel. We followed that mentality to the letter and off we went to Costco.
Costco is a place where you end up buying a ton of stuff that you don’t really
need but generally buy it because it is cheaper than buying it in Tesco.
However, due to the fact that we had a space limit in our container, we forced
ourselves to be good. No giant tubs of peanut butter (ok only one tub but that
was a present for someone in Israel), no toys for the kids (successfully dodged
that section so Ella wouldn’t get any ideas), just sensible stuff. Tinfoil,
ziplock bags, fairy liquid, shower gel, toothpaste, nappies and a few other
essential items were purchased and taken home ready for the shippers. Thank
goodness the apartment we are renting has a machsan (storage room) as we are
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-67422985381253371722013-01-10T23:56:00.000-08:002013-01-28T00:00:57.833-08:00<div dir="rtl" style="text-align: right;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The first question that most people in London asked us when we told people about our <span style="background-color: #f3f3f3;">Aliyah</span> was “where are you going to live?” Most people in Israel just said “you will find something once you are here.” The Zionist in us told us to be pioneers, camp out on mattresses on friend’s floors for a bit. The English side of us said “don’t be so stupid – find a flat NOW.” So we started our flat hunt straight away. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Friends recommended a couple of websites such as homeless.co.il and yad2.co.il but as you can imagine, these websites were a minefield for us. After a lot of google translate, we decided to ask our friends in Israel to help us. By the next morning, they had already set up viewings of three apartments in Modi’in to be seen later that day. Through about 50 photos of the apartment with verbal commentary over the phone about each one and a skype viewing of the apartment a few days later, one of them fit our criteria. Contracts were drawn up and signed that week (all in Ivrit so we had to call upon our trusty translator (the same friend who found us the apartment) and so we are now proud tenants of a flat in Keiser, Modi’in. Anyone who is looking for a property in Israel whilst living abroad needs one thing and one thing only…a REALLY good friend who can negotiate in Ivrit!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07227153693711876329noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-122487056740641801.post-44483455099224682642013-01-02T02:22:00.000-08:002013-01-21T02:24:16.062-08:00The "To Do" List<div dir="rtl" style="text-align: right;" trbidi="on">
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<span lang="EN-GB"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">How do you start moving your life from London to Israel in a short space of time? The answer for us was simple…the ultimate ‘to do’ list. One night shortly after we announced our Aliyah, we sat down with a fresh excel spreadsheet and started. The NefeshB’nefesh website had a generic list which we used as a starting point and then we wrote down everything we needed to do, both in London and in Israel. In Rafi’s mind, the only way this was going to work was if it would be regularly updated with every phone call/person we contacted/item completed. This was to be done with a colour scheme. Green was the colour when something was done so the aim was a spreadsheet full of green. With a few prompts to keep to the rule of the ‘to do’ list, we are on our way to having a beautiful, green piece of spreadsheet art. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">The Zionist dream of living in Israel is one thing but the decision to go came down to a job. Once Rafi was lucky enough to find work, there was no stopping us. Endless nights talking hypothetically about making Aliyah became very real when we told our parents. It didn’t matter how much we prepared them about the eventuality of our move to Israel, they were still in shock when we told them we were going with the response “we know you spoke about it but we never thought you would actually do it.” Our friends were supportive – albeit for a few of the “you can’t leave us” comments. For every phone call we made saying that we were leaving London, we made a phone call to Israel, telling friends and family that we were on our way in 8 weeks – much more supportive!<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">A big loss for us will be not having our support network out there with us – gone are the days of free babysitting! On the plus side, we have a lot of family in Israel who have already called us asking what they can do to help. That is invaluable to us and our adjustment to life in Israel.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Now that the cat is out the bag (news travels very fast in North West London), we can openly start our Aliyah preparations – arrangements for our flat in London, meetings with the Jewish Agency to sort out paperwork, meetings with shipment companies (we met with 4 companies – exhausting!) and finding somewhere for us to live in Israel. So much to do – so little time. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">We are making <span style="background-color: white;">Aliyah</span>…in 8 weeks! From the pipedream 9 years ago on our gap years, 5½ years of marriage, a couple of kids, many discussions and who knows how many ‘what ifs’ we have finally started our Aliyah countdown.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Just to introduce ourselves, we are Rafi and Adina Mendelsohn from London. We have two children – Ella who is nearly 3 and Eitan who is 12 weeks old. Through this blog, we want to share our Aliyah experiences – the good, the very good and also the not quite so good bits.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span lang="EN-GB" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Moving our family and our lives to another country, which however familiar it might be to us through so many visits, is still a foreign country with a foreign culture and a foreign language! The fact that our kids will speak better Ivrit than us and will therefore probably run rings around us is scary. But we also know that this is an incredible opportunity for our family and we are so excited. Before we get too excited though, we have to try and work out how an earth we are going to pack up our lives in just 8 weeks! Let the challenge begin.<o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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